星期一, 二月 27, 2006

[我思故我在]输了

全辩十,第一场比赛,初赛,我们就输了.输给马大.

二十四小时过去了,我始终还是无法释怀.近年来,除了与她吵架外,这次是我最心痛又内疚的一次.

心痛因为一支辩论队的成立到成熟需要二到三年的时间,结果就这样结束了战役.这是第二支有能力冲击冠军的队伍.看见国伟,慧敏和立康失望的面,我的心更疼.另一队是子斌和顺威那队.

内疚则是因为这回我忙工作,没法抽时间出来帮忙筹备.(更大原因是国辩事件后,对辩论失去了以往的热诚,提不起劲).

国伟,慧敏和立康:对不起了!

全辩八的恶梦在全辩十重现.全辩的战役也许结束了,但辩论活动的战争是无止尽的.我希望你们能留下栽培我们第三代的队伍.这也许又是个二到三年的苦战.你们愿意留下吗?

看看这些新生代,我不禁有些气!气他们没野心和求胜的欲望.敷衍了事,以交功课的心态对待辩论.老话一句,师傅引进门,成就靠自己.你们反省吧!

回想当年带子斌,顺威,立康,惠镳和亦雯时(子灿一点点),他们的骄傲不倔让我们头痛不已,但这照就了大家的成长.带队的,打比赛的,后勤的,都有成长.下来国伟,慧敏和立康也对伟江,子斌,顺威等人进行挑战和冲击,也为队伍带来了蜕化.从来,我们对叛逆的队员都有充分宽容的态度.因为辩论活动的本质就是如此.不管为了立场和真理,大家吵到多不愉快,结束后大家还是一家人.子灿,立康,子斌和顺威等人曾经何尚不是难搞出名?

候选的第三代辩论员,你们敢挑战学长吗?

看见国文,立恒等人毕业后在场上的风范,不禁觉得辩论活动是种对人的性格和人生历练的检验.能成为大家的就是少数这些朋友.其他的都匠气太重.一位相声前辈也向我提过,人生历练对演员来说是非常重要的.不见许多影帝,影后都是大器晚成的,都是累计多年经验才能成功.

回到比赛,个人对赛会感到十分的失望.筹委会的青涩和不专业让比赛失色不少.另外,当场上比赛有太多场外的因素牵扯时,比赛就面临了个危机.看官,可以让辩论回归辩论吗?这是我的控诉!

给我的学弟妹和辩论朋友,继续辩论!

11 条评论:

hsueh fong 说...

old guy, dont be so upset lar... the team achieve more than we ever dreamt of..and one match doesn't mean everything... maybe for some of you its like losing a golden opportunity...but its different really... because we didn't lose hope this time...we still have a young team... To this team I just wanna say gambate... Learn from the very best and you will be better. (PS we are not the very best, you need find new shi fu liao)

顺威 说...

Winning is not only our aim in debate road.All of us feel dissapointed but there are something which we should feel glad.The young team grow stronger with this experience,the spirit will grow stronger with this match's lost.To all young guys in debate team,keep going, success will be just in front.

Guo Wei 说...

dun worry......
i hav confident towards our young team......
if others can do it....
why not us????

BRAVO MMU MLK CHINESE DEBATE TEAM !!!

el1981 说...

Match is nothing without win and loose. Winner wins, but looser learned.

The ball is round, loosing this time not means that they will not be able to win next time.

Chang Lih Kang 郑立慷 说...

Yaler...losing is normal what. The most important thing is do not lose faith.

Biasalah...

Why u have so much grievances? :)

Chen Jie 说...

macth is not decide by what on the stage but something outside ... get what i mean ?

abeautifulmind 说...

如果可以积极面对的话。。。

“macth is not decide by what on the stage but something outside ... get what i mean ? ”

呵,所以你知道这种滋味了。多么残酷。两年前,大约也是这个时候,我也历经这滋味。那时有人告诉我看开点儿。:)

Chen Jie 说...

我在收"火"着,不然死的人就多了...

JR 说...

加油加油加油!!!

我们姓陈的应该没有不会跌到一次就爬不起来吧?
没有那么逊啦...

野兽修行 说...

真正的胜负不在赛果,在自己。我不觉得mmu mlk 输了。

昨晚才和协峰在mmu cyber hostel里促膝长谈。辩论的路是越来越难走了。大环境使然,非一人之力可以回天。

匿名 说...

Frankly, I feel sad once the result released. However, I recover quite fast from that. What I can't achieve, I hope my juniors can do it. So now, the most important is, brush up them.

Juniors, don't dissapoint me again and again.

Old folks, don't complain on the result again and again.

We have to start all over again.

Hoai Meng